Parenting Tip:
By nature children have a tendency to trust. A healthy child will have
three kinds of trust - in Divinity, in the goodness of people and trust
in oneself. If you keep telling children that everyone is a cheat, the
child loses trust in the people around and society in general. Their
personality, talents and communication skills shrink. Their interaction
with people suffers a great deal.
As parents we have to build
these things in a child. Do you encourage them if they come to you with
complaints? Or do you mould it to something positive? You have to play a
balanced role. If they get swayed away by somebody whose habits are not
so good, then you have to point out their mistakes and bring them to
the centre. But if they are telling you negative things about somebody,
then you have to point out the positive.
We create an
atmosphere around us. If we create an atmosphere of negativity,
distrust, or dejection, they are going to reflect and bounce the same
thing on us. But, if we create an atmosphere of trust and children grow
in that atmosphere, they become brilliant.
credit:srisriravisankar
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